tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13538418.post112173849077332530..comments2023-09-30T06:44:43.855-04:00Comments on Blessings of Love: I AM SO FRUSTRATED, I need to SCREAMDonnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02575070690254630205noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13538418.post-1122660143518596732005-07-29T14:02:00.000-04:002005-07-29T14:02:00.000-04:00Wow Thanks! It is ALWAYS awesome to hear encourage...Wow Thanks! It is ALWAYS awesome to hear encouragements!!Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02575070690254630205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13538418.post-1122658941799081852005-07-29T13:42:00.000-04:002005-07-29T13:42:00.000-04:00THIS IS FROM A READER WHO HAPPENED TO FIND YOUR BL...THIS IS FROM A READER WHO HAPPENED TO FIND YOUR BLOG.<BR/><BR/>Parenting is certainly no easy task. Imagine what God goes through seeing billions of his creations scampering about doing exactly the opposite of what was told them (and how many times have you or I done exactly the same thing?). As a father of five it can be frustrating when your child, that little person that is supposed to do what you say, will look you straight in the eye and defy you. Something that really helped me was when I took this same thing to the Lord in prayer. He revealed to me that there are going to be some people that will come into your life who are in an infant/toddler stage in their Christian life. They will hear the Word and choose (yes, choose) to do something other than what is required. Are we to condemn their behavior in frustration because they may be doing something we know to be in defiance of the given word? God told me no. What we do is lift that person to God in prayer. Let God do what God does while we keep letting our light shine before all men that they may see our good works and glorify the Father. That means love the person. This is a lot easier said than done, but when it is practiced it makes all the difference. My 9 year old, 8 year old, 4 year old and 2 year old are all walking, talking examples of this principle.<BR/><BR/>Keep your head up. Parenting doesn't get easier, but it does bring you closer to God, closer to your spouse and closer to your kids. I will pray for you.<BR/><BR/>"A soft answer turns away wrath,<BR/>But a harsh word stirs up anger."<BR/>Proverbs 15:1Robert Gonzalezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09416125004603005509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13538418.post-1121892529086941302005-07-20T16:48:00.000-04:002005-07-20T16:48:00.000-04:00I have read Shepherding a Child's Heart. I own it ...I have read Shepherding a Child's Heart. I own it and also the workbook which I haven't gone through yet. I would like to know if anyone would be interested in working through the book along with me. I think I'll send out an e-mail. :)Autumnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13371955087651850618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13538418.post-1121806338701646812005-07-19T16:52:00.000-04:002005-07-19T16:52:00.000-04:00hi donna. i just want to encourage you. i don't th...hi donna. i just want to encourage you. i don't think merci was really that bad. i think she genuinely wanted to worship, and also wanted some attention. i didn't even mind about half of the times she was bugging me. :)<BR/>i think it is AWESOME that u brought her to IHOP. i think there is no better way to teach a kid how to worship then to give them the opportunity. and i think sometimes parenting (from my 8 months experience) is wearing on us when we are doing something right. i know i have lots to learn, too, as i watch u older parents. my mom has reccommended a book to me called "shepherding your child's heart" which i haven't read yet, but she said its really good. anyone else read it?<BR/>Lord, I pray for Donna, that u would give her wisdom and revelation from heaven on how to raise her wonderful full-of-life daughter. that you would give her so much wisdom with how to raise merci that she would be able to just softly whisper a word and not even have to raise her voice to get merci's attention. bless their mother-daughter relationship, Lord, i know its an amazing one! <BR/>also, donna, one more thing, i have to agree with jason, i don't really thing u are that inward. maybe merci is just excessivley outward. :) Merci Rae - God is doing big things with you!Bekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10389800653336764709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13538418.post-1121787113037959602005-07-19T11:31:00.000-04:002005-07-19T11:31:00.000-04:00I can understand why you might be feeling the way ...I can understand why you might be feeling the way you do... (this is said totally in love)... Merci is a wild woman! I like what the other comment says about focusing on the positive side of her personality traits. Keep in mind there is a difference between personality traits and disobedience. Being a kid and having fun should be encouraged, but disobedience needs dicsipline. I will pray that God will speak to you (and me, too!) on this issue.Autumnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13371955087651850618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13538418.post-1121777222920203972005-07-19T08:47:00.000-04:002005-07-19T08:47:00.000-04:00Merci is quite the free-spirit. Donna, even thoug...Merci is quite the free-spirit. Donna, even though you say you are an inward person, I remember you being the opposite when I first met you. The need to compare is funny. My sister molded half of her younger years to my example, even though it was totally against her natural being. I think a funny yet good example is early Janet Jackson to later Janet Jackson. At first she was a splitting image of Michael...she just hadn't found the way out of his shadow yet.<BR/><BR/>Merci seems very advanced for her age. Maybe she just began to realize who she is while she was very young, and that individualized expression mixed with "being a kid" makes her difficult to contain. Then again, this is coming from a guy that looks/feels awkward holding a kid and who has never changed a diaper.Jasonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10709310682912709831noreply@blogger.com